Petition for Dissolution of Marriage: A Comprehensive Guide for Complex Divorces

Navigate the divorce process with confidence. Learn how to properly file a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage when dealing with significant assets, business ownership, and child custody matters.

Introduction

A Petition for Dissolution of Marriage is the formal legal document that initiates the divorce process. This document is particularly important for couples with complex financial situations, business interests, or those with minor children. When you file this petition, you're officially asking the court to end your marriage and address critical matters such as property division, spousal support, child custody, and child support. For long-term marriages with accumulated assets, business ownership interests, or families with children, understanding this document is essential to protecting your rights and ensuring a fair resolution to your marriage.

Key Things to Know

  1. 1

    Filing a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage officially starts the divorce process and establishes the date of separation, which can be important for determining property rights.

  2. 2

    For business owners, how you characterize your business in the initial petition can impact later negotiations, so consult with both a divorce attorney and business attorney before filing.

  3. 3

    Long-term marriages often result in more equal division of assets and potentially longer-term spousal support, regardless of who earned more during the marriage.

  4. 4

    Child custody requests should focus on the children's best interests rather than parental preferences to be most effective with the court.

  5. 5

    The petition is just the beginning - be prepared for a lengthy process involving financial disclosures, valuations, negotiations, and potentially court hearings.

  6. 6

    Consider temporary orders for support, custody, and property use during the divorce process, which can be requested alongside your initial petition.

  7. 7

    Professional valuations for businesses, real estate, and complex assets are almost always necessary and should be budgeted for as part of your divorce expenses.

  8. 8

    Tax implications of property division and support arrangements should be considered before finalizing any divorce agreement.

Key Decisions

Parents with Minor Children

Long-Term Marriage Partners with Significant Assets

Business Owners

Long-term Married Couples with Significant Assets

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PETITION FOR DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE

IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF [COUNTY] COUNTY, [STATE]


IN RE THE MARRIAGE OF:

[PETITIONER FULL LEGAL NAME],
Petitioner,

and

[RESPONDENT FULL LEGAL NAME],
Respondent.

Case No.: [CASE NUMBER]
Division: [DIVISION]


PETITION FOR DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE

COMES NOW the Petitioner, [PETITIONER FULL LEGAL NAME], by and through undersigned counsel (or "pro se" if self-represented), and files this Petition for Dissolution of Marriage against Respondent, [RESPONDENT FULL LEGAL NAME], and in support thereof states as follows:

I. JURISDICTION AND VENUE

  1. This Court has jurisdiction over the subject matter of this action and the parties hereto pursuant to [STATE STATUTE CITATION].

  2. Venue is proper in [COUNTY] County, [STATE], because:

    • ☐ Petitioner has been a resident of [COUNTY] County, [STATE], for at least [STATUTORY PERIOD] immediately prior to filing this Petition.
    • ☐ Respondent has been a resident of [COUNTY] County, [STATE], for at least [STATUTORY PERIOD] immediately prior to filing this Petition.
    • ☐ The parties' last marital residence was in [COUNTY] County, [STATE].
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY OTHER BASIS FOR VENUE].

II. PARTIES AND MARRIAGE INFORMATION

A. Petitioner Information

  1. Petitioner's full legal name is [PETITIONER FULL LEGAL NAME].

  2. Petitioner's current residential address is [PETITIONER'S STREET ADDRESS, CITY, STATE, ZIP CODE].

  3. Petitioner's date of birth is [PETITIONER'S DATE OF BIRTH].

  4. Petitioner has been a resident of [STATE] for at least [STATUTORY PERIOD] immediately preceding the filing of this Petition, specifically since [DATE].

  5. Petitioner has been a resident of [COUNTY] County for [LENGTH OF TIME].

B. Respondent Information

  1. Respondent's full legal name is [RESPONDENT FULL LEGAL NAME].

  2. Respondent's current residential address is [RESPONDENT'S STREET ADDRESS, CITY, STATE, ZIP CODE].

    • ☐ If Respondent's whereabouts are unknown, Petitioner has made the following diligent efforts to locate Respondent: [DESCRIBE EFFORTS].
  3. Respondent's date of birth is [RESPONDENT'S DATE OF BIRTH].

  4. Upon information and belief, Respondent has been a resident of [STATE] for [LENGTH OF TIME].

C. Marriage Information

  1. Petitioner and Respondent were lawfully married on [DATE OF MARRIAGE] in [CITY, COUNTY, STATE/COUNTRY OF MARRIAGE].

  2. The parties separated on or about [DATE OF SEPARATION].

  3. The duration of the marriage from the date of marriage to the date of separation (or filing) is [YEARS AND MONTHS].

  4. This marriage is:

    • ☐ A short-term marriage (less than [STATUTORY PERIOD] years)
    • ☐ A medium-term marriage ([STATUTORY PERIOD] to [STATUTORY PERIOD] years)
    • ☐ A long-term marriage (more than [STATUTORY PERIOD] years)

III. JURISDICTIONAL REQUIREMENTS

  1. Petitioner affirms that:

    • ☐ Petitioner has been a resident of [STATE] for at least [STATUTORY PERIOD] immediately preceding the filing of this Petition.
    • ☐ Respondent has been a resident of [STATE] for at least [STATUTORY PERIOD] immediately preceding the filing of this Petition.
  2. The mandatory waiting period of [STATUTORY WAITING PERIOD] has:

    • ☐ Been satisfied as of the date of filing this Petition.
    • ☐ Not yet been satisfied, but will be satisfied by [DATE].

IV. GROUNDS FOR DISSOLUTION

  1. The marriage between the parties is irretrievably broken and there is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation.

  2. The irretrievable breakdown is evidenced by:

    • ☐ Irreconcilable differences that have caused the permanent breakdown of the marriage
    • ☐ The parties have lived separate and apart for a continuous period of at least [STATUTORY PERIOD]
    • ☐ Serious marital discord adversely affecting the attitude of one or both parties toward the marriage
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
  3. [IF APPLICABLE] In addition to the no-fault grounds stated above, Petitioner alleges the following fault-based grounds for dissolution:

    • ☐ Adultery
    • ☐ Abandonment/desertion for a continuous period of at least [STATUTORY PERIOD]
    • ☐ Cruel and inhuman treatment
    • ☐ Habitual drunkenness or drug addiction
    • ☐ Conviction of a felony
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
  4. [IF FAULT-BASED GROUNDS ALLEGED] The specific facts supporting the fault-based grounds are as follows: [DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF FACTS SUPPORTING FAULT-BASED GROUNDS].

V. CHILDREN OF THE MARRIAGE

A. Minor Children

  1. The following minor children were born of the marriage or legally adopted by the parties:
Full Legal NameDate of BirthAgeCurrent Address
[CHILD 1 NAME][DOB][AGE][ADDRESS]
[CHILD 2 NAME][DOB][AGE][ADDRESS]
[CHILD 3 NAME][DOB][AGE][ADDRESS]
  1. Pregnancy Status:
    • ☐ Neither party is currently pregnant.
    • ☐ Petitioner is currently pregnant, with an expected due date of [DUE DATE].
    • ☐ Respondent is currently pregnant, with an expected due date of [DUE DATE].

B. Child Custody Proposal

  1. Petitioner requests the following custody arrangement:

    • ☐ Joint legal custody, with both parents sharing decision-making authority regarding the children's education, healthcare, religious upbringing, and other major decisions.
    • ☐ Sole legal custody to Petitioner, with Petitioner having exclusive decision-making authority regarding the children's education, healthcare, religious upbringing, and other major decisions.
    • ☐ Sole legal custody to Respondent, with Respondent having exclusive decision-making authority regarding the children's education, healthcare, religious upbringing, and other major decisions.
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY PROPOSED LEGAL CUSTODY ARRANGEMENT].
  2. Petitioner requests the following physical custody arrangement:

    • ☐ Joint physical custody, with the children residing with each parent according to the parenting time schedule set forth below.
    • ☐ Primary physical custody to Petitioner, with Respondent having parenting time as set forth below.
    • ☐ Primary physical custody to Respondent, with Petitioner having parenting time as set forth below.
    • ☐ Sole physical custody to Petitioner, with Respondent having supervised parenting time as set forth below.
    • ☐ Sole physical custody to Respondent, with Petitioner having supervised parenting time as set forth below.
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY PROPOSED PHYSICAL CUSTODY ARRANGEMENT].
  3. The proposed custody arrangement is in the best interests of the minor children because: [DETAILED EXPLANATION OF WHY PROPOSED ARRANGEMENT SERVES CHILDREN'S BEST INTERESTS].

C. Parenting Time/Visitation Schedule

  1. Petitioner proposes the following parenting time schedule:

    a. Regular Weekday/Weekend Schedule:

    • Parent A: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Parent B: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]

    b. Summer Vacation Schedule:

    • Parent A: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Parent B: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]

    c. School Breaks Schedule:

    • Winter/Christmas Break: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Spring Break: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Fall Break: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Other School Breaks: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]

    d. Holiday Schedule:

    • New Year's Eve/Day: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Martin Luther King Jr. Day: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Presidents' Day: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Easter/Passover: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Memorial Day: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Independence Day: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Labor Day: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Halloween: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Thanksgiving: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Christmas Eve/Day: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Mother's Day: [ALWAYS WITH MOTHER]
    • Father's Day: [ALWAYS WITH FATHER]
    • Children's Birthdays: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Parents' Birthdays: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • Other Significant Holidays: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]

    e. Transportation Arrangements:

    • [DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF TRANSPORTATION ARRANGEMENTS, INCLUDING PICKUP/DROP-OFF LOCATIONS, TIMES, AND RESPONSIBLE PARTIES]

    f. Communication During Parenting Time:

    • [DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF HOW NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT MAY COMMUNICATE WITH CHILDREN DURING OTHER PARENT'S PARENTING TIME]

    g. Right of First Refusal:

    • [DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF ANY RIGHT OF FIRST REFUSAL WHEN CUSTODIAL PARENT IS UNAVAILABLE]

D. Child Support Calculation

  1. Pursuant to the [STATE] Child Support Guidelines, Petitioner proposes the following child support arrangement:

    a. Income Information:

    • Petitioner's gross monthly income: $[AMOUNT]
    • Respondent's gross monthly income: $[AMOUNT]
    • Combined gross monthly income: $[AMOUNT]

    b. Basic Child Support Obligation: $[AMOUNT] per month

    c. Additional Expenses:

    • Health insurance premium for children: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Work-related childcare expenses: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Educational expenses: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Extraordinary medical expenses: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Other extraordinary expenses: $[AMOUNT] per month

    d. Total Child Support Obligation: $[AMOUNT] per month

    e. Allocation of Child Support Obligation:

    • Petitioner's percentage share of income: [PERCENTAGE]%
    • Respondent's percentage share of income: [PERCENTAGE]%
    • Petitioner's monthly child support obligation: $[AMOUNT]
    • Respondent's monthly child support obligation: $[AMOUNT]
  2. Petitioner requests that child support payments begin on [DATE] and continue until each child reaches the age of majority (18 years), graduates from high school, or becomes emancipated, whichever occurs last, but in no event beyond the age of [STATUTORY MAXIMUM AGE].

  3. Petitioner requests that child support payments be made:

    • ☐ Directly to the custodial parent
    • ☐ Through the [STATE] Child Support Disbursement Unit
    • ☐ By income withholding order through the obligor parent's employer

E. Health Insurance for Children

  1. Petitioner proposes the following arrangement for the children's health insurance coverage:

    • ☐ Petitioner shall maintain health, dental, and vision insurance coverage for the minor children through employment or other group plan.
    • ☐ Respondent shall maintain health, dental, and vision insurance coverage for the minor children through employment or other group plan.
    • ☐ Both parties shall maintain health, dental, and vision insurance coverage for the minor children if available at reasonable cost through their respective employers.
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY PROPOSED HEALTH INSURANCE ARRANGEMENT].
  2. The cost of health insurance premiums for the children shall be:

    • ☐ Included in the child support calculation
    • ☐ Shared equally between the parties
    • ☐ Prorated according to the parties' respective incomes
    • ☐ Paid entirely by [PETITIONER/RESPONDENT]
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
  3. Uncovered medical expenses (including co-pays, deductibles, and any medical, dental, orthodontic, vision, psychological, or other health-related expenses not covered by insurance) shall be:

    • ☐ Shared equally between the parties
    • ☐ Prorated according to the parties' respective incomes (Petitioner: [PERCENTAGE]%, Respondent: [PERCENTAGE]%)
    • ☐ Paid entirely by [PETITIONER/RESPONDENT]
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

F. Extraordinary Expenses for Children

  1. Petitioner proposes the following arrangement for extraordinary expenses:

    a. Educational Expenses:

    • Private school tuition: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • College expenses: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • Tutoring: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • School supplies and fees: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]

    b. Extracurricular Activities:

    • Sports participation: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • Music/arts lessons: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • Summer camps: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • Other activities: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]

    c. Special Needs Expenses:

    • Therapy: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • Medical equipment: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]
    • Specialized care: [DETAILED ARRANGEMENT]

G. UCCJEA Information

  1. The minor children have resided at the following addresses during the past five (5) years:
AddressDates of ResidencePerson(s) With Whom Children Lived
[ADDRESS 1][DATE RANGE][NAMES]
[ADDRESS 2][DATE RANGE][NAMES]
[ADDRESS 3][DATE RANGE][NAMES]
  1. Petitioner:

    • ☐ Has not participated as a party, witness, or in any other capacity in any other litigation or custody proceeding concerning custody of the minor children in this or any other state.
    • ☐ Has participated in the following litigation or custody proceedings concerning the minor children: [DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF PRIOR PROCEEDINGS].
  2. Petitioner:

    • ☐ Has no information of any custody proceeding that could affect the current proceeding.
    • ☐ Has information about the following custody proceedings that could affect the current proceeding: [DETAILED DESCRIPTION].
  3. Petitioner:

    • ☐ Does not know of any person not a party to this proceeding who has physical custody of the minor children or claims rights of legal custody or physical custody of, or visitation with, the minor children.
    • ☐ Knows of the following persons not a party to this proceeding who have physical custody of the minor children or claim rights of legal custody or physical custody of, or visitation with, the minor children: [NAMES AND ADDRESSES OF SUCH PERSONS].

VI. PROPERTY DIVISION

A. Marital Property Inventory

  1. During the course of the marriage, the parties acquired the following marital property, which Petitioner requests be equitably divided:

Real Estate

Property AddressLegal DescriptionDate AcquiredPurchase PriceCurrent Market ValueOutstanding MortgageEquityTitled Owner(s)Proposed Disposition
[ADDRESS 1][LEGAL DESCRIPTION][DATE]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]
[ADDRESS 2][LEGAL DESCRIPTION][DATE]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]

Bank Accounts and Cash

Financial InstitutionAccount TypeAccount Number (last 4 digits)Current BalanceTitled Owner(s)Proposed Disposition
[INSTITUTION 1][TYPE][####]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]
[INSTITUTION 2][TYPE][####]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]

Vehicles and Watercraft

Make/ModelYearVIN/HIN (last 4 digits)Current ValueOutstanding LoanEquityTitled Owner(s)Proposed Disposition
[VEHICLE 1][YEAR][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]
[VEHICLE 2][YEAR][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]

Retirement and Investment Accounts

Financial InstitutionAccount TypeAccount Number (last 4 digits)Current ValueMarital PortionTitled OwnerProposed Disposition
[INSTITUTION 1][TYPE][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAME][DISPOSITION]
[INSTITUTION 2][TYPE][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAME][DISPOSITION]

Business Interests

Business NameEntity TypeOwnership PercentageDate AcquiredCurrent ValueValuation MethodProposed Disposition
[BUSINESS 1][TYPE][PERCENTAGE]%[DATE]$[AMOUNT][METHOD][DISPOSITION]
[BUSINESS 2][TYPE][PERCENTAGE]%[DATE]$[AMOUNT][METHOD][DISPOSITION]

Personal Property of Significant Value

Item DescriptionDate AcquiredPurchase PriceCurrent ValueCurrent PossessionProposed Disposition
[ITEM 1][DATE]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAME][DISPOSITION]
[ITEM 2][DATE]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAME][DISPOSITION]

Other Marital Assets

Asset DescriptionDate AcquiredPurchase PriceCurrent ValueTitled Owner(s)Proposed Disposition
[ASSET 1][DATE]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]
[ASSET 2][DATE]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][DISPOSITION]

B. Separate Property Inventory

  1. Petitioner claims the following property as separate property not subject to division:
Asset DescriptionBasis for Separate Property ClaimDate AcquiredCurrent ValueCurrent PossessionSupporting Documentation
[ASSET 1][BASIS][DATE]$[AMOUNT][NAME][DOCUMENTATION]
[ASSET 2][BASIS][DATE]$[AMOUNT][NAME][DOCUMENTATION]
  1. Petitioner acknowledges that Respondent may claim the following property as separate property:
Asset DescriptionBasis for Separate Property ClaimDate AcquiredCurrent ValueCurrent PossessionPetitioner's Position
[ASSET 1][BASIS][DATE]$[AMOUNT][NAME][POSITION]
[ASSET 2][BASIS][DATE]$[AMOUNT][NAME][POSITION]

C. Real Estate Details

  1. The parties own the following real estate:

    a. Primary Marital Residence:

    • Address: [FULL ADDRESS]
    • Legal Description: [LEGAL DESCRIPTION]
    • Date Acquired: [DATE]
    • Purchase Price: $[AMOUNT]
    • Current Market Value: $[AMOUNT] (based on [APPRAISAL/COMPARATIVE MARKET ANALYSIS/TAX ASSESSMENT])
    • First Mortgage: $[AMOUNT] (Lender: [LENDER NAME])
    • Second Mortgage/HELOC: $[AMOUNT] (Lender: [LENDER NAME])
    • Total Equity: $[AMOUNT]
    • Titled Owners: [NAMES]
    • Proposed Disposition: [DETAILED PROPOSAL]

    b. Additional Real Property:

    • Address: [FULL ADDRESS]
    • Legal Description: [LEGAL DESCRIPTION]
    • Date Acquired: [DATE]
    • Purchase Price: $[AMOUNT]
    • Current Market Value: $[AMOUNT] (based on [APPRAISAL/COMPARATIVE MARKET ANALYSIS/TAX ASSESSMENT])
    • Mortgage: $[AMOUNT] (Lender: [LENDER NAME])
    • Total Equity: $[AMOUNT]
    • Titled Owners: [NAMES]
    • Proposed Disposition: [DETAILED PROPOSAL]

D. Business Interests

  1. The parties have ownership interests in the following businesses:

    a. Business Name: [BUSINESS NAME]

    • Entity Type: [CORPORATION/LLC/PARTNERSHIP/SOLE PROPRIETORSHIP]
    • Date Acquired/Founded: [DATE]
    • Ownership Percentage: [PERCENTAGE]%
    • Initial Investment: $[AMOUNT]
    • Current Value: $[AMOUNT]
    • Valuation Method: [INCOME APPROACH/MARKET APPROACH/ASSET APPROACH]
    • Valuation Date: [DATE]
    • Valuation Performed By: [NAME/FIRM]
    • Business Assets: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Business Liabilities: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Annual Revenue (last 3 years): $[AMOUNT] ([YEAR]), $[AMOUNT] ([YEAR]), $[AMOUNT] ([YEAR])
    • Annual Profit (last 3 years): $[AMOUNT] ([YEAR]), $[AMOUNT] ([YEAR]), $[AMOUNT] ([YEAR])
    • Proposed Disposition: [DETAILED PROPOSAL]

E. Retirement and Investment Accounts

  1. The parties have the following retirement and investment accounts:

    a. Account Type: [401(K)/IRA/PENSION/INVESTMENT ACCOUNT]

    • Financial Institution: [INSTITUTION NAME]
    • Account Number (last 4 digits): [####]
    • Account Holder: [NAME]
    • Date Opened: [DATE]
    • Premarital Value: $[AMOUNT] (as of [DATE])
    • Current Value: $[AMOUNT] (as of [DATE])
    • Marital Portion: $[AMOUNT]
    • Proposed Division: [DETAILED PROPOSAL]
    • Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) Required: [YES/NO]

F. Personal Property Division

  1. Petitioner proposes the following division of household items, furniture, and personal effects:

    a. Items to be Awarded to Petitioner:

    • [DETAILED LIST OF ITEMS WITH ESTIMATED VALUES]

    b. Items to be Awarded to Respondent:

    • [DETAILED LIST OF ITEMS WITH ESTIMATED VALUES]

    c. Items to be Sold and Proceeds Divided:

    • [DETAILED LIST OF ITEMS WITH ESTIMATED VALUES AND PROPOSED DIVISION OF PROCEEDS]

    d. Items in Dispute:

    • [DETAILED LIST OF ITEMS WITH ESTIMATED VALUES AND EACH PARTY'S POSITION]

G. Vehicles and Watercraft

  1. The parties own the following vehicles and watercraft:

    a. Vehicle/Watercraft: [MAKE/MODEL/YEAR]

    • Vehicle Identification Number (VIN)/Hull Identification Number (HIN) (last 4 digits): [####]
    • Titled Owner(s): [NAMES]
    • Date Acquired: [DATE]
    • Purchase Price: $[AMOUNT]
    • Current Value: $[AMOUNT] (based on [KELLEY BLUE BOOK/NADA/APPRAISAL])
    • Outstanding Loan: $[AMOUNT] (Lender: [LENDER NAME])
    • Monthly Payment: $[AMOUNT]
    • Current Possession: [NAME]
    • Proposed Disposition: [DETAILED PROPOSAL]

VII. DEBT DIVISION

A. Marital Debt Inventory

  1. During the course of the marriage, the parties incurred the following marital debts, which Petitioner requests be equitably divided:

Mortgages and Real Estate Loans

Property AddressLenderAccount Number (last 4 digits)Original AmountCurrent BalanceMonthly PaymentNamed Borrower(s)Proposed Allocation
[ADDRESS 1][LENDER][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][ALLOCATION]
[ADDRESS 2][LENDER][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][ALLOCATION]

Auto Loans

VehicleLenderAccount Number (last 4 digits)Original AmountCurrent BalanceMonthly PaymentNamed Borrower(s)Proposed Allocation
[VEHICLE 1][LENDER][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][ALLOCATION]
[VEHICLE 2][LENDER][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][ALLOCATION]

Credit Cards

CreditorAccount Number (last 4 digits)Credit LimitCurrent BalanceMonthly PaymentNamed Borrower(s)Proposed Allocation
[CREDITOR 1][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][ALLOCATION]
[CREDITOR 2][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][NAMES][ALLOCATION]

Personal Loans

LenderAccount Number (last 4 digits)Original AmountCurrent BalanceMonthly PaymentPurposeNamed Borrower(s)Proposed Allocation
[LENDER 1][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][PURPOSE][NAMES][ALLOCATION]
[LENDER 2][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][PURPOSE][NAMES][ALLOCATION]

Tax Liabilities

Tax TypeTax YearAmount OwedFiling StatusProposed Allocation
[TYPE][YEAR]$[AMOUNT][STATUS][ALLOCATION]
[TYPE][YEAR]$[AMOUNT][STATUS][ALLOCATION]

Other Marital Debts

CreditorAccount Number (last 4 digits)Original AmountCurrent BalanceMonthly PaymentPurposeNamed Borrower(s)Proposed Allocation
[CREDITOR 1][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][PURPOSE][NAMES][ALLOCATION]
[CREDITOR 2][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][PURPOSE][NAMES][ALLOCATION]

B. Separate Debt Inventory

  1. Petitioner claims the following debts as separate debts not subject to division:
CreditorAccount Number (last 4 digits)Original AmountCurrent BalanceMonthly PaymentBasis for Separate Debt ClaimNamed Borrower(s)
[CREDITOR 1][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][BASIS][NAMES]
[CREDITOR 2][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][BASIS][NAMES]
  1. Petitioner acknowledges that Respondent may claim the following debts as separate debts:
CreditorAccount Number (last 4 digits)Original AmountCurrent BalanceMonthly PaymentBasis for Separate Debt ClaimNamed Borrower(s)Petitioner's Position
[CREDITOR 1][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][BASIS][NAMES][POSITION]
[CREDITOR 2][####]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT]$[AMOUNT][BASIS][NAMES][POSITION]

C. Proposed Debt Allocation

  1. Petitioner proposes the following allocation of marital debts:

    a. Debts to be Assumed by Petitioner:

    • [DETAILED LIST OF DEBTS WITH CURRENT BALANCES]
    • Total: $[AMOUNT]

    b. Debts to be Assumed by Respondent:

    • [DETAILED LIST OF DEBTS WITH CURRENT BALANCES]
    • Total: $[AMOUNT]
  2. Petitioner proposes the following provisions regarding debt allocation:

    a. Each party shall be solely responsible for all debts allocated to them and shall indemnify and hold the other party harmless from any liability thereon.

    b. Each party shall make timely payments on all debts allocated to them and shall not do anything to impair the credit of the other party.

    c. Each party shall cooperate in executing any documents necessary to remove the other party's name from any debts allocated to them, including refinancing when necessary and feasible.

    d. In the event either party fails to pay any debt allocated to them and the other party suffers damage to their credit or is required to make payments on such debt, the defaulting party shall be liable for all damages, including actual payments made, credit repair costs, and reasonable attorney's fees incurred in enforcing this provision.

VIII. FINANCIAL SUPPORT

A. Spousal Support/Alimony Request

  1. Petitioner requests:

    • ☐ No spousal support/alimony
    • ☐ Temporary spousal support/alimony during the pendency of this action
    • ☐ Short-term rehabilitative spousal support/alimony
    • ☐ Long-term/permanent spousal support/alimony
    • ☐ Lump-sum spousal support/alimony
    • ☐ Reimbursement spousal support/alimony
  2. Petitioner requests spousal support/alimony in the amount of $[AMOUNT] per month for a period of [DURATION] beginning on [DATE].

  3. The requested spousal support/alimony is:

    • ☐ Modifiable based on a substantial change in circumstances
    • ☐ Non-modifiable as to amount
    • ☐ Non-modifiable as to duration
    • ☐ Non-modifiable as to both amount and duration
    • ☐ Terminable upon the death of either party
    • ☐ Terminable upon the remarriage of the recipient
    • ☐ Terminable upon the cohabitation of the recipient with a romantic partner
    • ☐ Not terminable upon remarriage or cohabitation

B. Income Information

  1. Petitioner's income information:

    • Current employer: [EMPLOYER NAME]
    • Position/title: [POSITION]
    • Length of employment: [DURATION]
    • Gross monthly income from employment: $[AMOUNT]
    • Net monthly income from employment: $[AMOUNT]
    • Self-employment income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Rental income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Investment income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Retirement/pension income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Other income: $[AMOUNT] per month (source: [SOURCE])
    • Total monthly income from all sources: $[AMOUNT]
  2. Respondent's income information (to the best of Petitioner's knowledge):

    • Current employer: [EMPLOYER NAME]
    • Position/title: [POSITION]
    • Length of employment: [DURATION]
    • Gross monthly income from employment: $[AMOUNT]
    • Net monthly income from employment: $[AMOUNT]
    • Self-employment income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Rental income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Investment income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Retirement/pension income: $[AMOUNT] per month
    • Other income: $[AMOUNT] per month (source: [SOURCE])
    • Total monthly income from all sources: $[AMOUNT]

C. Financial Need Analysis

  1. Petitioner's monthly expenses:

    • Housing (mortgage/rent): $[AMOUNT]
    • Utilities (electricity, gas, water, sewer, trash): $[AMOUNT]
    • Telephone and internet: $[AMOUNT]
    • Food and household supplies: $[AMOUNT]
    • Clothing and personal care: $[AMOUNT]
    • Transportation (car payment, insurance, gas, maintenance): $[AMOUNT]
    • Health insurance and medical expenses: $[AMOUNT]
    • Child-related expenses: $[AMOUNT]
    • Entertainment and recreation: $[AMOUNT]
    • Debt payments: $[AMOUNT]
    • Other expenses: $[AMOUNT]
    • Total monthly expenses: $[AMOUNT]
  2. The standard of living established during the marriage included:

    • [DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF MARITAL STANDARD OF LIVING]
  3. Factors supporting Petitioner's request for spousal support:

    • Length of marriage: [DURATION]
    • Age and health of parties: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Education and employment history of parties: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Earning capacity of parties: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Contributions to the marriage (financial and non-financial): [DESCRIPTION]
    • Sacrifices made for the benefit of the marriage: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Time needed for education or training to become self-sufficient: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Tax consequences of spousal support: [DESCRIPTION]
    • Other relevant factors: [DESCRIPTION]

IX. NAME CHANGE

  1. Petitioner requests:

    • ☐ No name change
    • ☐ Restoration of former/maiden name to: [FULL LEGAL NAME]
  2. Petitioner believes Respondent:

    • ☐ Does not wish to change their name
    • ☐ Wishes to restore their former/maiden name to: [FULL LEGAL NAME]

X. TEMPORARY ORDERS

  1. Petitioner requests the following temporary orders during the pendency of this action:

A. Temporary Child Custody

  1. Petitioner requests temporary custody of the minor children as follows:
    • ☐ Joint legal custody
    • ☐ Sole legal custody to Petitioner
    • ☐ Sole legal custody to Respondent
    • ☐ Joint physical custody with the following schedule: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • ☐ Primary physical custody to Petitioner with the following parenting time for Respondent: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]
    • ☐ Primary physical custody to Respondent with the following parenting time for Petitioner: [DETAILED SCHEDULE]

B. Temporary Child Support

  1. Petitioner requests temporary child support in the amount of $[AMOUNT] per month to be paid by [PETITIONER/RESPONDENT] beginning on [DATE].

C. Temporary Spousal Support

  1. Petitioner requests temporary spousal support in the amount of $[AMOUNT] per month to be paid by [PETITIONER/RESPONDENT] beginning on [DATE].

D. Temporary Use of Property

  1. Petitioner requests temporary exclusive use and possession of:
    • ☐ The marital residence located at [ADDRESS]
    • ☐ The following vehicle(s): [VEHICLE DESCRIPTION(S)]
    • ☐ The following personal property: [PROPERTY DESCRIPTION]
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

E. Status Quo Financial Orders

  1. Petitioner requests the following temporary financial orders:
    • ☐ Each party shall maintain all currently existing insurance policies (health, life, auto, homeowners) without change in coverage or beneficiary designations.
    • ☐ Each party shall continue paying the bills and expenses they have historically paid during the marriage.
    • ☐ Neither party shall incur extraordinary expenses or dissipate marital assets without the written consent of the other party or court order.
    • ☐ Neither party shall close, transfer funds from, or change beneficiaries on any joint accounts without the written consent of the other party or court order.
    • ☐ Each party shall provide the other with copies of all financial statements, including bank statements, credit card statements, and investment account statements, on a monthly basis.
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

XI. LEGAL PROTECTIONS

A. Domestic Violence Allegations

  1. ☐ There have been no incidents of domestic violence between the parties. ☐ There have been incidents of domestic violence between the parties, specifically:
    • [DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF INCIDENTS, INCLUDING DATES, LOCATIONS, AND NATURE OF VIOLENCE]
    • Police reports were filed: [YES/NO]
    • Criminal charges were filed: [YES/NO]
    • Protective orders were issued: [YES/NO]
    • Impact on children: [DESCRIPTION]

B. Restraining Order Requests

  1. Petitioner requests:
    • ☐ No restraining orders
    • ☐ A mutual restraining order prohibiting both parties from harassing, threatening, or committing acts of domestic violence against the other
    • ☐ A restraining order prohibiting Respondent from:
      • ☐ Coming within [DISTANCE] feet of Petitioner
      • ☐ Coming within [DISTANCE] feet of Petitioner's residence
      • ☐ Coming within [DISTANCE] feet of Petitioner's workplace
      • ☐ Coming within [DISTANCE] feet of the children's school or childcare
      • ☐ Contacting Petitioner directly or indirectly except regarding:
        • ☐ Child-related matters
        • ☐ Financial matters related to the divorce
        • ☐ Through attorneys only
        • ☐ Through a third-party intermediary: [NAME]
        • ☐ In writing only
        • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

C. Non-Dissipation Provisions

  1. Petitioner requests an order prohibiting both parties from:
    • Selling, transferring, encumbering, concealing, or in any way disposing of any property, real or personal, belonging to or acquired by either party, except in the usual course of business or for the necessities of life, without the written consent of the other party or an order of the court.
    • Canceling, modifying, terminating, or allowing to lapse for nonpayment of premiums, any policy of health, homeowner's or renter's, automobile, or life insurance that provides coverage to either party or the minor children.
    • Changing or attempting to change the beneficiaries on any policy of health, homeowner's or renter's, automobile, or life insurance that provides coverage to either party or the minor children.
    • Opening or diverting mail addressed to the other party.
    • Signing or endorsing the other party's name on any negotiable instrument, check, or draft, such as tax refunds, insurance payments, and dividends, or attempting to negotiate any negotiable instrument payable to the other party without the personal signature of the other party.
    • Taking any action to hide or conceal marital assets.

XII. TAX CONSIDERATIONS

A. Tax Filing Status

  1. Petitioner proposes the following tax filing status:
    • For tax year [CURRENT YEAR]:
      • ☐ Married filing jointly
      • ☐ Married filing separately
      • ☐ Head of household (if qualified)
    • For future tax years:
      • ☐ Single (after divorce is final)
      • ☐ Head of household (if qualified)

B. Dependency Exemptions

  1. Petitioner proposes the following allocation of dependency exemptions for the minor children:

    • ☐ Petitioner shall claim all children every year
    • ☐ Respondent shall claim all children every year
    • ☐ The parties shall alternate claiming all children (Petitioner in even years, Respondent in odd years)
    • ☐ The parties shall alternate claiming all children (Petitioner in odd years, Respondent in even years)
    • ☐ Petitioner shall claim the following children: [NAMES]
    • ☐ Respondent shall claim the following children: [NAMES]
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
  2. The right to claim dependency exemptions shall be contingent upon the claiming party being current in all child support and medical support obligations as of December 31 of the tax year in question.

C. Tax Liability Division

  1. Petitioner proposes the following division of tax liabilities and refunds:
    • For joint returns previously filed:
      • Any tax liability: [ALLOCATION]
      • Any tax refunds: [ALLOCATION]
    • For the current tax year:
      • Any tax liability: [ALLOCATION]
      • Any tax refunds: [ALLOCATION]
    • For future tax years: Each party shall be solely responsible for their own tax liabilities and entitled to their own tax refunds.

XIII. INSURANCE

A. Health Insurance Continuation

  1. Petitioner proposes the following regarding health insurance:
    • For Petitioner:
      • ☐ Petitioner will maintain their own health insurance through their employer
      • ☐ Petitioner will obtain health insurance through the marketplace/exchange
      • ☐ Petitioner will continue coverage through Respondent's plan via COBRA (at Petitioner's expense)
      • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
    • For Respondent:
      • ☐ Respondent will maintain their own health insurance through their employer
      • ☐ Respondent will obtain health insurance through the marketplace/exchange
      • ☐ Respondent will continue coverage through Petitioner's plan via COBRA (at Respondent's expense)
      • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
    • For Children:
      • ☐ Petitioner will maintain health insurance for the children through their employer
      • ☐ Respondent will maintain health insurance for the children through their employer
      • ☐ Both parties will maintain health insurance for the children if available through their employers
      • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

B. Life Insurance Requirements

  1. Petitioner proposes the following regarding life insurance:
    • ☐ Petitioner shall maintain life insurance in the amount of $[AMOUNT] with the following beneficiaries: [NAMES/RELATIONSHIP]
    • ☐ Respondent shall maintain life insurance in the amount of $[AMOUNT] with the following beneficiaries: [NAMES/RELATIONSHIP]
    • ☐ The life insurance shall remain in effect until:
      • ☐ The youngest child reaches the age of majority
      • ☐ All child support obligations are fulfilled
      • ☐ All spousal support obligations are fulfilled
      • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
    • ☐ Each party shall provide proof of compliance with this provision annually by [DATE] of each year.

C. Property Insurance Transition

  1. Petitioner proposes the following regarding property insurance:
    • For the marital residence:
      • ☐ The party awarded the marital residence shall be responsible for obtaining and maintaining homeowner's insurance.
      • ☐ Until the marital residence is sold or transferred, [PETITIONER/RESPONDENT] shall maintain the existing homeowner's insurance.
    • For vehicles:
      • ☐ Each party shall be responsible for obtaining and maintaining insurance on the vehicles awarded to them.
      • ☐ Until vehicle titles are transferred, the current insurance shall remain in effect.
    • For other insured property:
      • [DETAILED PROVISIONS]

XIV. LEGAL FEES

  1. Petitioner requests:

    • ☐ Each party to pay their own attorney's fees and costs
    • ☐ Respondent to contribute $[AMOUNT] toward Petitioner's attorney's fees and costs
    • ☐ Respondent to pay all of Petitioner's attorney's fees and costs
    • ☐ Attorney's fees and costs to be paid from marital assets before division
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]
  2. This request is based on:

    • ☐ Disparity in income and financial resources between the parties
    • ☐ Respondent's conduct that unnecessarily increased the cost of litigation
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

XV. PROCEDURAL REQUIREMENTS

A. Alternative Dispute Resolution

  1. Petitioner:
    • ☐ Is willing to participate in mediation
    • ☐ Is willing to participate in collaborative divorce process
    • ☐ Is willing to participate in early neutral evaluation
    • ☐ Requests a waiver of alternative dispute resolution requirements due to:
      • ☐ History of domestic violence
      • ☐ Power imbalance between the parties
      • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

B. Financial Disclosure Compliance

  1. Petitioner:
    • ☐ Has filed the required financial disclosure forms with this Petition
    • ☐ Will file the required financial disclosure forms within [STATUTORY TIMEFRAME]
    • ☐ Requests additional time to file financial disclosure forms due to: [REASON]

C. Service Instructions

  1. Petitioner requests that Respondent be served with process as follows:
    • ☐ Personal service at Respondent's residence: [ADDRESS]
    • ☐ Personal service at Respondent's workplace: [ADDRESS]
    • ☐ Service by certified mail, return receipt requested
    • ☐ Service by publication because: [DETAILED EXPLANATION OF EFFORTS TO LOCATE RESPONDENT]
    • ☐ Waiver of service to be requested from Respondent
    • ☐ Other: [SPECIFY]

XVI. PRAYER FOR RELIEF

WHEREFORE, Petitioner respectfully requests that this Honorable Court:

  1. Enter a Decree of Dissolution of Marriage dissolving the marriage between Petitioner and Respondent;

  2. Award custody of the minor children as follows:

    • ☐ Joint legal custody to both parties
    • ☐ Sole legal custody to Petitioner
    • ☐ Sole legal custody to Respondent
    • ☐ Joint physical custody with the parenting time schedule set forth in this Petition
    • ☐ Primary physical custody to Petitioner with parenting time to Respondent as set forth in this Petition
    • ☐ Primary physical custody to Respondent with parenting time to Petitioner as set forth in this Petition
  3. Order child support in accordance with the [STATE] Child Support Guidelines;

  4. Order the division of marital property and allocation of marital debts as set forth in this Petition;

  5. Order spousal support/alimony as set forth in this Petition;

  6. Restore Petitioner's former/maiden name to [FULL LEGAL NAME];

  7. Enter the temporary orders requested in this Petition;

  8. Order Respondent to contribute to Petitioner's attorney's fees and costs as set forth in this Petition;

  9. Enter such restraining orders and non-dissipation orders as set forth in this Petition;

  10. Order the parties to maintain existing insurance coverage and allocate future insurance responsibilities as set forth in this Petition;

  11. Allocate tax exemptions and address tax issues as set forth in this Petition;

  12. Grant such other and further relief as the Court deems just and proper under the circumstances.

Respectfully submitted,

Dated: [DATE]


[PETITIONER FULL LEGAL NAME], Petitioner [ADDRESS] [PHONE NUMBER] [EMAIL ADDRESS]

[IF REPRESENTED BY COUNSEL:]


[ATTORNEY NAME], Esq. [FIRM NAME] [ADDRESS] [PHONE NUMBER] [EMAIL ADDRESS] [BAR NUMBER] Attorney for Petitioner

VERIFICATION

I, [PETITIONER FULL LEGAL NAME], being first duly sworn upon oath, state that I am the Petitioner in the above-entitled action, that I have read the foregoing Petition for Dissolution of Marriage and know the contents thereof, and that the statements contained therein are true and correct to the best of my knowledge, information, and belief.


[PETITIONER FULL LEGAL NAME]

Subscribed and sworn to before me this ____ day of ____________, [YEAR].


Notary Public My Commission Expires: _______________

Washington Requirements for Petition for Dissolution of Marriage

Residency Requirement (RCW 26.09.030)

At least one spouse must be a resident of Washington state, or a member of the armed forces stationed in Washington, at the time the petition is filed.

Waiting Period (RCW 26.09.030)

A divorce cannot be finalized until at least 90 days have passed from the date of filing and service of the petition.

No-Fault Divorce (RCW 26.09.030)

Washington is a no-fault divorce state, requiring only that the marriage is 'irretrievably broken' without need to prove fault or wrongdoing.

Property Division (RCW 26.09.080)

Washington is a community property state, requiring all property and debts acquired during marriage to be divided equitably (though not necessarily equally).

Spousal Maintenance (RCW 26.09.090)

The petition must address whether spousal maintenance (alimony) is requested, considering factors such as financial resources, duration of marriage, and standard of living.

Parenting Plan Requirement (RCW 26.09.181)

If the couple has minor children, a proposed parenting plan must be filed that addresses residential schedule, decision-making authority, and dispute resolution.

Child Support (RCW 26.19)

The petition must address child support obligations based on Washington's child support schedule and considering both parents' incomes and the children's needs.

Domestic Violence Protection (RCW 26.50)

The petition must disclose any history of domestic violence and may include requests for protective orders if necessary.

Name Change Option (RCW 26.09.150(3))

The petition may include a request for restoration of a former name for either spouse.

Financial Disclosure (Washington Superior Court Civil Rule 26)

Both parties must provide full disclosure of assets, liabilities, income, and expenses through financial declarations.

Temporary Orders (RCW 26.09.060)

The petition may include requests for temporary orders regarding custody, support, use of property, and restraining orders during the pendency of the divorce.

Military Service Member Protection (50 U.S.C. § 3901-4043)

Special protections apply if a spouse is an active duty military member, including potential stays of proceedings under the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act.

Child Custody Jurisdiction (RCW 26.27)

The petition must comply with the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act regarding jurisdiction over child custody matters.

Retirement Benefits Division (29 U.S.C. § 1056(d)(3))

The petition should address division of retirement benefits, which may require a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) for certain retirement plans.

Tax Considerations (26 U.S.C. § 1041)

The petition should address tax filing status, dependency exemptions for children, and tax implications of property transfers.

Health Insurance Coverage (29 U.S.C. § 1161-1169)

The petition must address continuation of health insurance coverage for spouses and children, including potential COBRA benefits.

Mandatory Parenting Seminar (RCW 26.09.191)

Parents of minor children must complete a parenting seminar before finalizing the divorce in most Washington counties.

Child Relocation Restrictions (RCW 26.09.405-560)

The petition should address the legal requirements for relocating with children after divorce, including notice requirements and potential restrictions.

Alternative Dispute Resolution (RCW 26.09.015)

Many Washington counties require mediation or other forms of alternative dispute resolution before trial for divorcing couples with children.

Venue Requirements (RCW 26.09.010)

The petition must be filed in the appropriate county where either spouse resides.

Frequently Asked Questions

A Petition for Dissolution of Marriage typically requires: 1) Names and addresses of both spouses, 2) Date and place of marriage, 3) Date of separation, 4) Names and birthdates of minor children, 5) Grounds for divorce (usually irreconcilable differences in no-fault states), 6) Property and debt information, 7) Requests for child custody and support, 8) Requests for spousal support, and 9) Division of assets and debts. For couples with significant assets or business interests, you'll need to provide detailed financial information and may need to attach financial declarations or business valuation documents.

Business owners should identify all business interests in the petition but avoid detailed valuations at this initial stage. Simply state that you own a business that will need to be valued and considered in the property division. Later in the process, you'll need professional business valuations, tax returns, profit and loss statements, and information about your ownership percentage. Consider whether the business was started before or during the marriage, as this affects whether it's separate or marital property. Consult with both a divorce attorney and a business attorney to protect your business interests throughout the divorce process.

Long-term marriages with significant assets require careful attention to: 1) Complete asset inventory including retirement accounts, investments, real estate, and collectibles, 2) Proper valuation of all assets, especially those that have appreciated during the marriage, 3) Identification of separate property acquired before marriage or through inheritance/gifts, 4) Tax implications of property division, 5) Potential long-term spousal support arrangements, and 6) Estate planning considerations. Your petition should indicate the complexity of your financial situation and request appropriate professional valuations. Consider working with a financial advisor specializing in divorce alongside your attorney.

When addressing child custody in your petition, focus on the best interests of your children rather than your preferences. Request a custody arrangement that provides stability and allows both parents meaningful relationships with the children when appropriate. Include a proposed parenting plan outlining physical custody (where children live) and legal custody (decision-making authority). Address special needs, school arrangements, and extracurricular activities. Courts prioritize children's wellbeing, so frame your requests around how they benefit your children. Avoid negative statements about the other parent in the petition itself.

After filing, several steps occur: 1) The petition must be legally served to your spouse, 2) Your spouse has a deadline (typically 20-30 days) to file a response, 3) Temporary orders may be established for support, custody, and use of property during the divorce process, 4) Financial disclosures must be exchanged, 5) Discovery process begins for complex assets or contested issues, 6) Negotiations or mediation to resolve disputes, 7) If settlement isn't reached, court hearings and potentially a trial will be scheduled, 8) Final judgment is issued dissolving the marriage and establishing all terms. For complex cases involving businesses or significant assets, this process typically takes 6-18 months.

Retirement accounts and pensions require special attention in your petition. While you don't need to specify exact division methods initially, indicate that these assets exist and will need equitable distribution. Later in the process, these accounts typically require Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) to divide them without tax penalties. For long-term marriages, retirement assets are often significant and may be divided equally, regardless of whose name they're in. Consider the tax implications and growth potential when negotiating these assets. Your petition should request appropriate expert assistance in valuing and dividing these complex financial instruments.

For couples with multiple properties, your petition should list all real estate holdings but doesn't need to specify exactly how each should be divided. Consider factors like: 1) Which properties are marital versus separate, 2) Current market values and outstanding mortgages, 3) Tax implications of selling versus transferring ownership, 4) Whether to liquidate investment properties or divide them, 5) Options for the family home if children are involved. Professional appraisals will likely be needed. Your petition should indicate the complexity of your real estate holdings and request appropriate professional assistance in valuation and division.

While divorce filings are generally public records, you can take steps to protect sensitive information: 1) Use account types rather than specific account numbers in your petition, 2) Request financial documents be filed under seal when appropriate, 3) Consider using a confidential financial declaration form if your state offers one, 4) Utilize private mediation for financial discussions rather than open court, 5) Include only necessary information in the initial petition, saving details for financial disclosures exchanged directly between parties. Consult with your attorney about specific privacy protections available in your jurisdiction, especially if business valuation information could impact competitive standing.

Petition for Dissolution of Marriage: A Comprehensive Guide for Complex Divorces - Washington