Stepparent Adoption in Utah
Reviewed by DocDraft Legal Team - Utah - Last updated October 6, 2026
Utah moved its adoption law into Title 81, Chapter 13 of the Utah Code on September 1, 2025, so older guides citing Title 78B, Chapter 6 are out of date. A stepparent files in the district court where the stepparent lives, using the Utah State Courts' Verified Petition to Adopt a Minor Stepchild with the custodial parent as co-petitioner. The other parent must consent under Utah Code 81-13-212 unless a court terminates that parent's rights under 81-13-205(5): for example after the parent is served notice under 81-13-207 and fails to file a motion for relief within 30 days after service, or on grounds in Title 80, Chapter 4, such as abandonment, when termination is in the child's best interests. Consent may also be implied by acts listed in 81-13-212(7)(b), such as knowingly leaving the child with another person for 180 consecutive days without providing for support, communicating, or otherwise maintaining a substantial relationship with the child. A child 12 years old or older must also consent unless the child lacks the mental capacity to do so, and the decree waits until the child has lived with the stepparent for 180 days unless the court finds good cause.
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How are the other parent's rights ended in a Utah stepparent adoption?
Under Utah Code 81-13-205(5), the court may terminate them if the parent signs a valid consent, after notice under 81-13-207 and no motion for relief within 30 days after service, or on Title 80, Chapter 4 grounds, such as abandonment, when termination is in the child's best interests. Consent may also be implied by acts listed in 81-13-212(7)(b).
Which Utah court and form are used for a stepparent adoption?
You file in the district court where you live, or if you live outside Utah, where the child was born or lives or a parent lives (Utah Code 81-13-102). The Utah State Courts publish a Verified Petition to Adopt a Minor Stepchild, which you and your spouse sign as co-petitioners, plus consent and decree forms.
Is a home study required for a stepparent adoption in Utah?
Usually not. Utah Code 81-13-403(1)(c) excuses the preplacement evaluation when a birth parent has legal custody and the adopting parent is a stepparent, unless the court requests one. You must still file a criminal history background check and a child abuse report before finalization, and 81-13-404 applies the same exemption afterward.
At what age must the child consent to a stepparent adoption in Utah?
Utah Code 81-13-212(1)(a) requires consent from a child adoptee who is 12 years old or older, unless the child does not have the mental capacity to consent. The child usually signs before the judge. If the child refuses, 81-13-215(6) has the court hold an evidentiary hearing, and it may still finalize if that is in the child's best interest.
Utah's Title 81 rules, the district court, and the stepchild petition
Since September 1, 2025, Utah adoptions are governed by Title 81, Chapter 13 of the Utah Code, which replaced the old Title 78B, Chapter 6 sections. Utah Code 81-13-203(2)(a) lets adults who are legally married to each other adopt, "including adoption by a stepparent," and the adopting adult or the spouse must be at least 10 years older than the child. You file in the district court in the judicial district where you live (81-13-102), on the Utah State Courts' Verified Petition to Adopt a Minor Stepchild, signed by you and your spouse as co-petitioners. The other parent is one of the people whose consent 81-13-212(1) requires, and that consent is not required if the parent's rights have been terminated by a court (81-13-212(2)). 81-13-212(7)(b) also provides that consent may be implied by listed acts, including knowingly leaving the child with another person for 180 consecutive days without providing for support, communicating, or otherwise maintaining a substantial relationship with the child, or receiving notice of the adoption under 81-13-207 or of a termination proceeding under 81-13-205 and failing to respond as required; implied consent may not be withdrawn (81-13-212(7)(d)). Separately, 81-13-205 lets a petition to terminate parental rights be joined with the adoption, and under 81-13-205(5) the court may terminate if the parent signs a valid consent, if the parent received notice of the adoption under 81-13-207 and failed to file a motion for relief within 30 days after service, or if the parent's rights are terminated on grounds described in Title 80, Chapter 4, such as abandonment, neglect, unfitness, or only token efforts to support or communicate with the child, and termination is in the best interests of the child. If the parent refuses consent and no proper grounds exist, 81-13-215(2) requires the court to dismiss the petition and decide custody. A preplacement home study is not required when a birth parent has legal custody and the adopter is a stepparent, unless the court requests one (81-13-403(1)(c)), though background and child abuse reports are still filed. A child 12 years old or older must consent unless lacking mental capacity (81-13-212(1)(a)), and under 81-13-219(2) the decree waits until the child has lived in your home for 180 days, unless the court finds good cause to enter it earlier.
Relevant Laws
Utah Code 81-13-212 (Necessary consent to adoption of a minor child)
Lists who must consent before a minor child's adoption is granted, including a child adoptee who is 12 years old or older unless the child does not have the mental capacity to consent, and each legal parent. A parent's consent is not required if the parent's rights relating to the child have been terminated by a court. Subsection (7) provides that consent may be implied by listed acts, including knowingly leaving the child with another person for 180 consecutive days without providing for support, communicating, or otherwise maintaining a substantial relationship with the child, or failing to respond as required after notice of the adoption or a termination proceeding; implied consent may not be withdrawn.
Utah Code 81-13-205 (Petition to terminate parental rights of a minor child)
Allows a termination petition to be joined with the adoption. The court may terminate if the parent signs a valid consent, if the parent received notice under 81-13-207 and failed to file a motion for relief within 30 days after service, or if rights are terminated on grounds in Title 80, Chapter 4 and termination is in the child's best interests.
Utah Code 81-13-403 (Preplacement adoptive evaluations and exceptions)
Unless the court requests one, no preplacement evaluation is needed when a birth parent has legal custody and the adopting parent is a stepparent. The stepparent must still file a criminal history background check and a child abuse report before finalization. Section 81-13-404 applies the same exemptions to the postplacement evaluation.
Utah State Courts: Adopting a Minor Stepchild
The judiciary's self-help page with the Verified Petition to Adopt a Minor Stepchild, consent and waiver forms, the Notice of Petition to Adopt and Notice of Rights, alternative service forms, and the draft findings and decree for district court stepparent adoptions.
Regional Variances
Utah stepparent adoption requirements
Court
District court in the judicial district where the adopting parent lives; for a nonresident, where the child was born, where the child lives, or where a parent lives when the petition is filed (Utah Code 81-13-102).
Petition form
Verified Petition to Adopt a Minor Stepchild (Utah State Courts, revised April 27, 2026), signed by the stepparent and the custodial parent as co-petitioners, filed with the Utah District Court Cover Sheet for Probate Actions.
Other parent's consent
Required from each legal parent under 81-13-212(1), unless the parent's rights have been terminated by a court (81-13-212(2)) or consent is implied by acts listed in 81-13-212(7)(b). The custodial spouse joins as co-petitioner or receives notice (81-13-207(1)(d)). If the other parent is a biological father who was not married to the child's mother, separate rules in 81-13-212(1)(f) and 81-13-213 govern that father's consent, and implied consent does not override 81-13-213 (81-13-212(7)(e)); ask a family law attorney.
Proceeding without consent
Through implied consent under 81-13-212(7)(b), for example knowingly leaving the child with another person for 180 consecutive days without providing for support, communicating, or otherwise maintaining a substantial relationship with the child, or through termination under 81-13-205(5): the parent received notice under 81-13-207 and failed to file a motion for relief within 30 days after service; or rights are terminated on grounds in Title 80, Chapter 4 (abandonment, neglect or abuse, unfitness, only token efforts to support or communicate, and others in 80-4-301) and termination is in the child's best interests. If no proper grounds exist, the court dismisses the petition and decides custody (81-13-215(2)).
Home study
Preplacement evaluation not required when a birth parent has legal custody and the adopter is a stepparent, unless the court requests it; criminal history and child abuse reports still filed before finalization (81-13-403(1)(c)). Same exemption for the postplacement evaluation (81-13-404(3)).
Residency or waiting period
Decree waits until the child has lived in the stepparent's home for 180 days, unless the court finds good cause to enter it earlier (81-13-219(2)).
Child's consent age
12 years old or older, unless the child does not have the mental capacity to consent (81-13-212(1)(a)). If the child refuses, the court holds an evidentiary hearing and may still finalize if in the child's best interest (81-13-215(6)).
Suggested Compliance Checklist
Decide how the other parent's rights will end
Before filing days after startingAsk the other parent to sign the Agreement to Adoption and Waiver of Rights. If they will not, plan for termination under Utah Code 81-13-205(5): either the parent is served notice under 81-13-207 and fails to file a motion for relief within 30 days after service, or you prove grounds in Title 80, Chapter 4, such as abandonment, and that termination is in the child's best interests. Consent may also be implied under 81-13-212(7)(b) by acts such as knowingly leaving the child with another person for 180 consecutive days without providing for support, communicating, or otherwise maintaining a substantial relationship with the child. Gather contact and support records early.
Get the background check and child abuse report
Before finalization days after startingObtain a criminal history report from the FBI, or from the Utah Department of Health and Human Services through a lawyer or adoption agency, and a Utah Child Abuse Central Registry report. Keep an FBI report sealed until you file it to preserve the chain of custody.
File the Verified Petition to Adopt a Minor Stepchild
At filing days after startingFile the petition, the Utah District Court Cover Sheet for Probate Actions, the Report of Adoption, and any signed consents in the district court where you live. Pay the filing fee or ask for a fee waiver.
Serve notice and file proof of service
At least 30 days before the final hearing days after startingServe the Notice of Petition to Adopt and Notice of Rights on anyone whose consent is required and who has not consented or waived notice, under Utah Rule of Civil Procedure 4. If personal service fails after two attempts, ask the court for alternative service. File proof of service before the final hearing.
Confirm the child's new name and update records
After the final decree days after startingRequest the name change in the petition so the decree orders it. Order certified copies of the decree before the case is sealed six months after the decree, for schools, Social Security, and passports. A separate name change petition is needed only for name changes outside the adoption.
| Task | Description | Document | Days after starting |
|---|---|---|---|
| Decide how the other parent's rights will end | Ask the other parent to sign the Agreement to Adoption and Waiver of Rights. If they will not, plan for termination under Utah Code 81-13-205(5): either the parent is served notice under 81-13-207 and fails to file a motion for relief within 30 days after service, or you prove grounds in Title 80, Chapter 4, such as abandonment, and that termination is in the child's best interests. Consent may also be implied under 81-13-212(7)(b) by acts such as knowingly leaving the child with another person for 180 consecutive days without providing for support, communicating, or otherwise maintaining a substantial relationship with the child. Gather contact and support records early. | - | Before filing |
| Get the background check and child abuse report | Obtain a criminal history report from the FBI, or from the Utah Department of Health and Human Services through a lawyer or adoption agency, and a Utah Child Abuse Central Registry report. Keep an FBI report sealed until you file it to preserve the chain of custody. | - | Before finalization |
| File the Verified Petition to Adopt a Minor Stepchild | File the petition, the Utah District Court Cover Sheet for Probate Actions, the Report of Adoption, and any signed consents in the district court where you live. Pay the filing fee or ask for a fee waiver. | - | At filing |
| Serve notice and file proof of service | Serve the Notice of Petition to Adopt and Notice of Rights on anyone whose consent is required and who has not consented or waived notice, under Utah Rule of Civil Procedure 4. If personal service fails after two attempts, ask the court for alternative service. File proof of service before the final hearing. | - | At least 30 days before the final hearing |
| Confirm the child's new name and update records | Request the name change in the petition so the decree orders it. Order certified copies of the decree before the case is sealed six months after the decree, for schools, Social Security, and passports. A separate name change petition is needed only for name changes outside the adoption. | name-change-petition | After the final decree |
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