Kansas Child Custody Agreement

K.S.A. 23-3202 presumes an agreed parenting plan is in the child's best interests, and a judge who wants a different order has to put specific findings on the record.

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Introduction

Kansas writes down the answer most states leave to inference. Under K.S.A. 23-3202, if the parties have entered into a parenting plan it shall be presumed that the agreement is in the best interests of the child, and that presumption may be overcome only if the court makes specific findings of fact stating why the agreed parenting plan is not in the best interests of the child. Agreeing therefore shifts the work: instead of the court deciding legal custody, residency and parenting time from scratch under the eighteen factors in K.S.A. 23-3203, the court starts from your plan and has to write down its reasons for departing from it. The presumption does not remove the court, and it does not turn the document into a private contract, because K.S.A. 23-2712(a) keeps every provision relating to legal custody, residency, parenting time, support or education of the minor children subject to the control of the court, and K.S.A. 23-3211(b) defines a permanent parenting plan as an agreement between parents which is incorporated into an order at a final hearing. Kansas also has its own vocabulary, keeping legal custody but describing where the child lives as residency and calling time with each parent parenting time rather than visitation. Because a plan has to be submitted whether or not the parents agree, drafting one that meets the statutory minimums is the practical first step.

Key Things to Know

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    Agreeing raises a presumption in the parents' favor in Kansas. K.S.A. 23-3202 provides that if the parties have entered into a parenting plan it shall be presumed that the agreement is in the best interests of the child. The presumption may be overcome and the court may make a different order, but only if the court makes specific findings of fact stating why the agreed parenting plan is not in the best interests of the child. That is a findings requirement rather than an evidentiary standard, so no burden of proof is set for it.

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    The presumption does not make the document self-executing. K.S.A. 23-2712(a) allows a separation agreement to include provisions relating to a parenting plan and requires an agreement the court finds valid, just and equitable to be incorporated in the decree, but any provisions relating to the legal custody, residency, visitation parenting time, support or education of the minor children shall be subject to the control of the court. K.S.A. 23-3211(b) builds the same point into the definition, describing a permanent parenting plan as an agreement between parents which is incorporated into an order at a final hearing. The custody terms bind once the court enters them, and remain modifiable afterward under K.S.A. 23-3218 through 23-3221.

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    Kansas does not use the phrase physical custody anywhere in its custody article. The article is titled legal custody, residency and parenting plans. K.S.A. 23-3206 covers joint and sole legal custody, K.S.A. 23-3207 covers residency, which is where the child lives, and time with each parent is parenting time rather than visitation. A residential arrangement that splits siblings between the parents is divided residency under K.S.A. 23-3207(b) and is authorized only in an exceptional case.

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    A parenting plan is required whether or not you agree. K.S.A. 23-3207 provides that the parties shall submit to the court either an agreed parenting plan or, in the case of dispute, proposed parenting plans for the court's consideration, and K.S.A. 23-3212(c) requires a parent asking for temporary orders on custody, residency or parenting time to file a proposed temporary parenting plan at the same time as the request. If the parents cannot produce a plan, or if either parent requests it, K.S.A. 23-3213(d) directs the court to develop one. What agreement changes is whether the court receives one joint plan or two competing ones.

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    A Kansas permanent parenting plan has a four item statutory floor. K.S.A. 23-3213(b) says the plan must set forth a designation of the legal custodial relationship of the child, a schedule for the child's time with each parent when appropriate, a procedure by which disputes between the parents may be resolved without need for court intervention, and, where either parent is a service member as defined in K.S.A. 23-3217, provisions for custody and parenting time on military deployment, mobilization, temporary duty or unaccompanied tour. The dispute resolution requirement is easy to miss and a plan that omits it is short of the statutory minimum. The same subsection allows the plan to be a general outline of how parental responsibilities and parenting time will be shared, so the minimums do not force a long document.

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    Kansas requires written notice before a move, and there is no mileage trigger at all. Under K.S.A. 23-3222(a) a parent shall give written notice to the other parent not less than 30 days prior to changing the residence of the child, or removing the child from this state for a period of time exceeding 90 days, and the notice must be sent by restricted mail, return receipt requested, to the other parent's last known address. That duty is triggered by any change of the child's residence, however short the move. Failure to give notice may be punished as indirect civil contempt under 23-3222(b), with attorney fees and expenses available against the parent who did not give it.

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    Domestic abuse is a required consideration in Kansas, not a presumption. K.S.A. 23-3203(a)(9) makes evidence of domestic abuse one of the factors the court shall consider, and defines it to cover both a pattern or history of physically or emotionally abusive behavior used to gain or maintain domination and control over an intimate partner or household member and a discrete act of domestic violence, stalking or sexual assault. K.S.A. 23-3203(b) lets the court order a parent to undergo a domestic violence offender assessment by a certified batterer intervention program and to follow its recommendations. A separate rebuttable presumption in K.S.A. 23-3205 covers a parent residing with a person on an offender registry or convicted of child abuse, which is a different rule from the domestic abuse factor, and if abuse is part of your situation this is a matter for a lawyer rather than a form.

Key decisions before you file

Before you file a Child Custody Agreement in Kansas, a few decisions shape the document: which option to choose and what each one means. The Child Custody Agreement guide walks through them.

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Kansas Child Custody Agreement (Compact State Terms)

Use these terms together with the national Child Custody Agreement template. They address requirements specific to Kansas law and replace the corresponding general provisions.

  1. KANSAS STATUTORY VOCABULARY The parents adopt the terms used in K.S.A. article 32 of chapter 23. References in the national template to physical custody are read as residency, and references to visitation are read as parenting time. This document is intended to be the agreed parenting plan submitted under K.S.A. 23-3207 and, on entry, the permanent parenting plan defined by K.S.A. 23-3211(b).

  2. LEGAL CUSTODIAL RELATIONSHIP The parents ask the court to designate the legal custodial relationship of the child [CHILD NAME], born [DATE OF BIRTH], as [JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY / SOLE LEGAL CUSTODY TO (PARENT NAME)]. Decision making rights and responsibilities on the child's health, education and welfare shall be exercised [JOINTLY / BY (PARENT NAME)], with [CONSULTATION REQUIREMENTS OR EXCEPTIONS]. This clause is the designation required by K.S.A. 23-3213(b)(1).

  3. RESIDENCY The child shall reside with [PARENT NAME / BOTH PARENTS ON THE SCHEDULE BELOW]. The parents acknowledge that residency is determined by the court under K.S.A. 23-3207 after it determines legal custody, and that a divided residency arrangement separating siblings is authorized only in an exceptional case.

  4. SCHEDULE FOR THE CHILD'S TIME WITH EACH PARENT Parenting time shall follow the schedule at [SCHEDULE REFERENCE], covering the regular week, school breaks, holidays, birthdays and vacation periods, together with [TRANSPORTATION AND EXCHANGE ARRANGEMENTS]. This schedule is the provision required by K.S.A. 23-3213(b)(2).

  5. DISPUTE RESOLUTION WITHOUT COURT INTERVENTION Before either parent files to enforce or modify this plan, except in an emergency, the parents shall resolve disputes by [MEDIATION / OTHER NAMED PROCEDURE], on [TERMS, INCLUDING WHO SELECTS THE NEUTRAL AND HOW COSTS ARE SHARED]. This clause is required by K.S.A. 23-3213(b)(3) and a plan without it is short of the statutory minimum.

  6. MILITARY DEPLOYMENT If either parent is a service member as defined in K.S.A. 23-3217, custody and parenting time during deployment, mobilization, temporary duty or an unaccompanied tour shall be [ARRANGEMENTS], as required by K.S.A. 23-3213(b)(4). If neither parent is a service member, this clause does not apply.

  7. NOTICE BEFORE A CHANGE OF THE CHILD'S RESIDENCE Each parent shall give the other written notice not less than 30 days before changing the residence of the child, or removing the child from Kansas for a period exceeding 90 days, sent by restricted mail, return receipt requested, to the other parent's last known address, as required by K.S.A. 23-3222(a). The parents acknowledge that this duty applies to any change of residence and carries no minimum distance.

  8. SUBMISSION, PRESUMPTION AND ENTRY The parents submit this plan as their agreed parenting plan. They acknowledge that it is presumed under K.S.A. 23-3202 to be in the best interests of the child, that the court may nonetheless make a different order if it makes specific findings of fact stating why the plan is not in the child's best interests, and that under K.S.A. 23-2712(a) the provisions on legal custody, residency, parenting time, support and education remain subject to the control of the court.

  9. CHILD SUPPORT NOT SETTLED HERE Child support is a separate calculation under separate rules and is not determined by this document.

Kansas Requirements for Child Custody Agreement

Agreed Parenting Plan Presumption Under K.S.A. 23-3202

If the parties have entered into a parenting plan it is presumed to be in the best interests of the child, and the court may make a different order only on specific findings of fact stating why the agreed plan is not. The document should be drafted and submitted as the parties' agreed parenting plan so the presumption attaches.

Parenting Plan Submission Required Under K.S.A. 23-3207

The parties shall submit either an agreed parenting plan or, in the case of dispute, proposed parenting plans for the court's consideration, and residency is determined after legal custody. Divided residency separating siblings is authorized only in an exceptional case.

Minimum Provisions of a Permanent Parenting Plan Under K.S.A. 23-3213(b)

The plan must set forth a designation of the legal custodial relationship, a schedule for the child's time with each parent when appropriate, a procedure for resolving disputes without court intervention, and, where a parent is a service member as defined in K.S.A. 23-3217, provisions for deployment. A plan may be a general outline so long as those items are present.

Optional Detailed Provisions Under K.S.A. 23-3213(c)

A plan may also address the residential schedule, holiday, birthday and vacation planning, weekends including holidays and school inservice days, allocation of parental rights on health, education and welfare, sharing of and access to information, relocation of parents, telephone access, transportation, and methods for resolving disputes. These are permitted rather than required.

Temporary Parenting Plan Filing Under K.S.A. 23-3212(c) and (d)

A parent requesting temporary orders on custody, residency or parenting time must file a proposed temporary parenting plan contemporaneously with the request, and a parent who disputes it must file a responsive proposed plan. Temporary and permanent plans are separate filings.

Legal Custody, Residency and Parenting Time Terminology Under K.S.A. 23-3206, 23-3207 and 23-3211

Kansas keeps legal custody, which is the allocation of parenting responsibilities including decision making on child health, education and welfare, but calls where the child lives residency and calls time with each parent parenting time. The document should avoid the phrase physical custody, which the statute does not use.

Order of Preference for Joint Legal Custody Under K.S.A. 23-3206

Joint legal custody is listed first in the statutory order of preference, and a court ordering sole legal custody instead must make specific findings on the record. The plan should state which arrangement is being requested.

Children's Terms Remain Subject to the Court Under K.S.A. 23-2712(a) and (b)

A separation agreement may include parenting plan provisions and, if valid, just and equitable, is incorporated in the decree, but provisions on legal custody, residency, parenting time, support or education of the minor children remain subject to the control of the court and stay modifiable while other settled matters do not.

Thirty Day Notice Before Changing the Child's Residence Under K.S.A. 23-3222

A parent must give written notice not less than 30 days before changing the child's residence or removing the child from Kansas for more than 90 days, by restricted mail with return receipt requested to the last known address. There is no distance threshold, and failure to give notice may be punished as indirect civil contempt with attorney fees.

Domestic Abuse as a Required Factor Under K.S.A. 23-3203(a)(9) and (b)

Evidence of domestic abuse is a factor the court shall consider, defined to cover both a pattern of coercive controlling behavior toward an intimate partner or household member and a discrete act of domestic violence, stalking or sexual assault. The court may order a domestic violence offender assessment by a certified batterer intervention program and require compliance with its recommendations.

Frequently Asked Questions

Not automatically, but Kansas gives the agreement real weight. K.S.A. 23-3202 provides that if the parties have entered into a parenting plan it shall be presumed that the agreement is in the best interests of the child. The statute then states the only route around it: the presumption may be overcome and the court may make a different order if the court makes specific findings of fact stating why the agreed parenting plan is not in the best interests of the child. That is a findings requirement rather than a burden of proof, so the practical effect is that a Kansas judge who wants a different arrangement has to explain on the record why yours does not work.

Yes. The plan is submitted to the court under K.S.A. 23-3207 and becomes binding through the order, not through the signatures. K.S.A. 23-3211(b) defines a permanent parenting plan as an agreement between parents which is incorporated into an order at a final hearing, and K.S.A. 23-2712(a) provides that even where a separation agreement is found valid, just and equitable and incorporated in the decree, its provisions relating to legal custody, residency, parenting time, support or education of the minor children remain subject to the control of the court. After entry the terms remain modifiable under K.S.A. 23-3218 through 23-3221.

Because the custody article never uses the phrase physical custody. The relevant article is titled legal custody, residency and parenting plans. K.S.A. 23-3206 deals with legal custody, joint or sole, which K.S.A. 23-3211 describes as the allocation of parenting responsibilities between parents, including decision making rights and responsibilities on matters of child health, education and welfare. Where the child lives is residency under K.S.A. 23-3207, and time with each parent is parenting time. An agreement written in generic custody and visitation language is not void, but it is not using the words the Kansas court will use in the order.

Yes, and that is the unusual part. K.S.A. 23-3207 provides that the parties shall submit to the court either an agreed parenting plan or, in the case of dispute, proposed parenting plans for the court's consideration, so a plan is filed either way. At the temporary orders stage, K.S.A. 23-3212(c) requires a parent asking for temporary orders touching custody, residency or parenting time to file a proposed temporary parenting plan contemporaneously with the request, and 23-3212(d) requires a disputing parent to file a responsive one. If the parents cannot produce a plan, or if either parent requests it, K.S.A. 23-3213(d) directs the court to develop a permanent parenting plan itself. The clerk of the district court supplies parenting plan forms prescribed by the supreme court under K.S.A. 23-3214(d).

K.S.A. 23-3213(b) sets four minimum provisions the plan must set forth: a designation of the legal custodial relationship of the child, a schedule for the child's time with each parent when appropriate, a procedure by which disputes between the parents may be resolved without need for court intervention, and, if either parent is a service member as defined in K.S.A. 23-3217, provisions for custody and parenting time upon military deployment, mobilization, temporary duty or unaccompanied tour. Beyond the floor, K.S.A. 23-3213(c) lists topics a plan may include but need not, among them the residential schedule, holiday, birthday and vacation planning, weekends including holidays and school inservice days, allocation of parental rights on health, education and welfare, sharing of and access to information, relocation of parents, telephone access, transportation, and methods for resolving disputes. The statute also allows the plan to be a general outline of how parental responsibilities and parenting time will be shared.

K.S.A. 23-3203(a) sets out eighteen numbered factors and directs the court to consider all relevant factors, including but not limited to those, so the list is open rather than closed. One list governs legal custody, residency and parenting time together rather than three separate ones. The factors are not switched off when the parents agree: K.S.A. 23-3202's presumption operates on top of the best interests standard, so the court is still applying best interests but starting from the position that your agreed plan satisfies it.

Thirty days, and it is not limited to long moves. K.S.A. 23-3222(a) requires a parent to give written notice to the other parent not less than 30 days prior to changing the residence of the child, or removing the child from this state for a period of time exceeding 90 days, and the notice goes by restricted mail, return receipt requested, to the last known address. There is no mileage threshold, so a move across town triggers the same duty as a move across the country. Under K.S.A. 23-3222(c) a change of residence or removal may be considered a material change of circumstances justifying modification, and on that motion the court weighs all factors it deems appropriate, including the effect of the move on the child's best interests, the effect on any party's rights under the article, and the increased cost the move imposes on a party exercising those rights. K.S.A. 23-3222(d) removes the notice duty as to a parent convicted of certain crimes in which the child was the victim.

Kansas treats it as a required consideration rather than a presumption. K.S.A. 23-3203(a)(9) lists evidence of domestic abuse among the factors the court shall consider, and defines it to include both a pattern or history of physically or emotionally abusive behavior, or the threat of it, used by one person to gain or maintain domination and control over an intimate partner or household member, and a discrete act of domestic violence, stalking or sexual assault. Beyond consideration, K.S.A. 23-3203(b) allows the court to order a parent to undergo a domestic violence offender assessment by a certified batterer intervention program and to comply with its recommendations, and K.S.A. 23-3214(a)(3) requires the court to inform parents about the impact of domestic abuse on children. There is a separate rebuttable presumption in K.S.A. 23-3205, but it addresses a parent residing with a person required to register as an offender or convicted of child abuse, which is a different situation. If abuse is present in your case, this is a matter for a lawyer.

No. Support is a separate calculation under separate rules, and K.S.A. 23-2712(a) treats support and education provisions as remaining under the court's control alongside custody, residency and parenting time. Keep the two questions apart, and do not assume a parenting plan resolves what either parent will pay.