South Carolina Child Custody Agreement

Agreeing in South Carolina takes paperwork off your hands, but it does not take the custody decision away from the judge.

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Introduction

In South Carolina, agreeing changes what the statute asks of you rather than what it gives you, and the change runs in the opposite direction from most places. Two duties in the custody article are switched on by disagreement, and therefore switched off by agreement. Section 63-15-220(A) of the South Carolina Code requires each parent to prepare, file and submit a parenting plan only at temporary hearings where custody is contested, and section 63-15-230(C) requires the court to consider all custody options and state its reasoning only if custody is contested or if either parent seeks an award of joint custody. Parents who agree owe no plan and trigger no reasoned-options analysis. What does not switch off is the merits review: section 63-15-230(A) still requires the court to make the final custody determination in the best interest of the child based upon the evidence presented, and the seventeen factors in section 63-15-240(B) apply to any custody order the court issues, contested or not. Nothing in Title 63 gives a parental agreement a presumption, a duty of adoption, or binding force. Agreeing in South Carolina removes paperwork, not scrutiny.

Key Things to Know

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    South Carolina attaches no special legal weight to the fact that you agreed. There is no statutory presumption in favor of an agreed arrangement and no provision requiring a court to adopt what the parents filed. The contrast inside South Carolina's own code is sharp: section 20-3-130(G) expressly empowers the family court to review and approve agreements bearing on alimony, and there is no parallel provision for custody. What agreeing does change is the workload, because two statutory duties are triggered only by disagreement.

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    Under section 63-15-220(A), each parent must prepare, file and submit a parenting plan only at temporary hearings where custody is contested, and the parties may elect to file one joint plan instead. At a final hearing the plan is optional, because section 63-15-220(B) says either party may file and submit an updated parenting plan for the court's consideration. There is no plan requirement at all where custody is uncontested, and the same subsection provides that a party's failure to submit a plan does not preclude the court from issuing a temporary or final custody order.

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    The court still makes the decision. Section 63-15-230(A) provides that the court shall make the final custody determination in the best interest of the child based upon the evidence presented, and section 63-15-240(A) treats approval of a parenting plan as something a custody order may include rather than must include. A judge told by statute to decide on the evidence is not bound by the parents' choice, so the arrangement carries legal force only once the court enters an order adopting it.

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    Joint custody in South Carolina is a decision-making label, not a schedule. Section 63-15-210(1) defines joint custody to mean that both parents have equal rights and responsibilities for major decisions concerning the child, including the child's education, medical and dental care, extracurricular activities, and religious training. The same definition lets a judge designate one parent to have sole authority over specific, identified decisions while both parents retain equal rights over everything else. Where the child sleeps travels separately, and section 63-15-230(D) makes that explicit: notwithstanding the custody determination, the court may allocate parenting time in the best interest of the child.

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    Section 63-15-240(B) sets out seventeen best interest factors, and the list is open at both ends. The chapeau says the court must consider the best interest of the child, which may include but is not limited to the listed factors, and the seventeenth is other factors as the court considers necessary. Several are worth drafting around: factor (7) reaches manipulation or coercive behavior used to involve the child in the parents' dispute, factor (8) reaches any effort by one parent to disparage the other in front of the child, and factor (12) provides that a proposed custodial parent's disability must not in and of itself be determinative of custody.

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    Two mandatory considerations sit outside the seventeen and are easy to miss. Section 63-15-30 requires the court to consider the child's reasonable preference, giving weight to the child's age, experience, maturity, judgment, and ability to express a preference. Section 63-15-40(A) requires the court to give weight to evidence of domestic violence, including evidence of which party was the primary aggressor. Section 63-15-40(B) adds a protection for the person who left, providing that a victim's absence or relocation from the home must not be considered sufficient cause, absent other factors, to deny custody where that person is not the primary aggressor.

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    Domestic violence operates as a precondition on visitation rather than as a presumption. Section 63-15-50(A) allows a court to award visitation to a person found by a court to have committed domestic violence, or found to have been the primary aggressor where complaints were made against both parties, only if the court finds that adequate provision for the safety of the child and the victim of domestic violence can be made. Section 63-15-50(B) then supplies a menu of conditions, including exchanges in a protected setting, supervised visitation, completion of a batterer intervention program, abstention from alcohol for the 24 hours preceding visitation, no overnight visitation, a bond against unlawful retention of the child, and confidentiality of the child's address. There is no rebuttable presumption against custody for a perpetrator anywhere in the chapter, so if there has been abuse or a protective order, this is a situation to raise with a lawyer rather than settle on a form.

Key decisions before you file

Before you file a Child Custody Agreement in South Carolina, a few decisions shape the document: which option to choose and what each one means. The Child Custody Agreement guide walks through them.

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South Carolina Child Custody Agreement (Compact State Terms)

Use these terms together with the national Child Custody Agreement template. They address requirements specific to South Carolina law and replace the corresponding general provisions.

  1. CUSTODY DESIGNATION Custody of the child shall be [JOINT CUSTODY / SOLE CUSTODY TO NAME OF PARENT]. Under S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-210(1), joint custody means that both parents have equal rights and responsibilities for major decisions concerning the child, including the child's education, medical and dental care, extracurricular activities, and religious training.

  2. DECISION-MAKING Major decisions shall be made [JOINTLY / BY NAME OF PARENT]. As permitted by 63-15-210(1), [NAME OF PARENT] shall have sole authority to decide [SPECIFIED MATTERS], while both parents retain equal rights and responsibilities for all other major decisions.

  3. PARENTING TIME Parenting time is allocated separately from the custody designation, consistent with 63-15-230(D). The child shall be with [NAME OF PARENT] during [ORDINARY SCHEDULE] and with [NAME OF PARENT] during [ORDINARY SCHEDULE]. Holidays, school breaks and the child's birthday are allocated at [HOLIDAY SCHEDULE], and exchanges take place at [EXCHANGE LOCATION].

  4. PARENTING PLAN CONTENTS Where a parenting plan is filed under S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-220, this document serves as that plan and reflects the parents' preferences, the allocation of parenting time to be spent with each parent, and the major decisions set out above. The parents may file this as a single joint plan.

  5. RESIDENCE AND RELOCATION [The parties agree / The parties do not agree] that neither parent shall move the child's residence to another location within South Carolina without the other parent's written consent, an agreement the family court may honor under S.C. Code Ann. 63-3-530(A)(30). South Carolina prescribes no relocation notice period, so the parents adopt their own: written notice of any change of the child's residence to [NOTICE ADDRESS] not less than [NUMBER] days in advance.

  6. CONDUCT BETWEEN THE PARENTS Neither parent shall use manipulation or coercive behavior to involve the child in the parents' dispute, and neither shall disparage the other parent in front of the child, consistent with 63-15-240(B)(7) and (8). The parents shall communicate about the child by [COMMUNICATION METHOD].

  7. SAFETY CONDITIONS Where the safety of the child or of a parent is at issue, the parents agree to the following conditions drawn from S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-50(B): [EXCHANGES IN A PROTECTED SETTING]; [SUPERVISED VISITATION BY NAME]; [ABSTENTION FROM ALCOHOL FOR THE 24 HOURS PRECEDING VISITATION]; and [CONFIDENTIALITY OF THE CHILD'S ADDRESS]. Nothing here displaces the court's duty under 63-15-50(A) to find that adequate provision for safety can be made before awarding visitation to a person found to have committed domestic violence.

  8. CHILD SUPPORT RESERVED Child support is calculated separately and is not settled by this Agreement. Nothing here sets, waives, or offsets a support obligation.

  9. COURT APPROVAL AND LATER CHANGES The parents shall submit this Agreement to the family court, which may approve a parenting plan as part of a custody order under S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-240(A)(1). Under 63-15-230(A) the court makes the final custody determination in the best interest of the child based upon the evidence presented, and this Agreement is not enforceable as a custody order until entered. Any later change shall be made by application to the court.

South Carolina Requirements for Child Custody Agreement

Parenting Plan at Contested Temporary Hearings, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-220(A)

At all temporary hearings where custody is contested, each parent must prepare, file and submit a parenting plan, and the parties may elect to file one joint plan instead. There is no plan requirement where custody is uncontested, and failure to submit one does not preclude the court from issuing a temporary or final custody order.

Parenting Plan Contents, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-220

A parenting plan reflects parental preferences, the allocation of parenting time to be spent with each parent, and major decisions, including but not limited to the child's education, medical and dental care, extracurricular activities, and religious training. The contents list is expressly open.

Final Custody Determination by the Court, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-230(A)

The court shall make the final custody determination in the best interest of the child based upon the evidence presented. An agreement does not displace that determination, and the arrangement is enforceable only once the court enters an order.

Reasoned Custody Options in Contested Cases, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-230(C)

If custody is contested, or if either parent seeks an award of joint custody, the court must consider all custody options and state its reasoning. Parents who agree and do not seek joint custody do not trigger this duty.

Definition of Joint Custody, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-210(1)

Joint custody means both parents have equal rights and responsibilities for major decisions concerning the child, including education, medical and dental care, extracurricular activities, and religious training. One parent may be designated to have sole authority over specific, identified decisions while both retain equal rights over the rest.

Parenting Time Allocated Separately, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-230(D)

Notwithstanding the custody determination, the court may allocate parenting time in the best interest of the child. Because the custody label does not set the schedule, the document should state the residential schedule in full.

Best Interest Factors, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-240(B)

Seventeen factors apply in issuing or modifying a custody order, and the list is open at both ends. They include manipulation or coercive behavior involving the child in the dispute, efforts to disparage the other parent in front of the child, a rule that a proposed custodial parent's disability is not in and of itself determinative, and a move of more than one hundred miles from the child's primary residence in the past year unless made for safety reasons.

Child's Reasonable Preference, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-30

The court must consider the child's reasonable preference for custody and give it weight based on the child's age, experience, maturity, judgment, and ability to express a preference. This duty sits outside the seventeen factors.

Domestic Violence Safety Finding, S.C. Code Ann. 63-15-50(A) and (B)

Visitation may be awarded to a person found to have committed domestic violence, or found to be the primary aggressor on cross-complaints, only if the court finds adequate provision for the safety of the child and the victim can be made. The court may impose conditions including protected-setting exchanges, supervised visitation, a batterer intervention program, alcohol abstention for the 24 hours preceding visitation, no overnight visitation, a bond, and address confidentiality.

In-State Relocation and Agreed Restrictions, S.C. Code Ann. 63-3-530(A)(30)

The family court may not order that a custodial parent not move a residence to a location within the State unless it finds a compelling reason or the parties have agreed to such a prohibition. Parents who want an in-state restriction, or a notice period South Carolina does not otherwise prescribe, have to write it into the agreement.

Frequently Asked Questions

It changes the paperwork, not the standard. Two duties in the custody article are triggered only by disagreement. Section 63-15-220(A) requires each parent to prepare, file and submit a parenting plan at all temporary hearings where custody is contested, and section 63-15-230(C) requires the court to consider all custody options and state its reasoning if custody is contested or if either parent seeks an award of joint custody. Parents who agree owe neither. What still applies is section 63-15-230(A), which requires the court to make the final custody determination in the best interest of the child based upon the evidence presented, and the seventeen factors at 63-15-240(B), which govern any custody order the court issues. No South Carolina statute gives an agreement a presumption or binding force.

Yes. The arrangement becomes enforceable only when the family court enters an order adopting it. Section 63-15-240(A) provides that a custody order may include, but is not limited to, the approval of a parenting plan, and section 63-15-230(A) puts the final custody determination on the court and ties it to the child's best interest based upon the evidence presented. A judge who is directed by statute to decide on the evidence is not bound by what the parents chose.

Only in a narrow situation. Section 63-15-220(A) requires each parent to prepare, file and submit a parenting plan at all temporary hearings where custody is contested, and it lets the parties elect to file one joint plan instead. At the final hearing the plan is optional under section 63-15-220(B), which says either party may file and submit an updated parenting plan for the court's consideration. Where custody is uncontested there is no plan requirement at all, and failure to submit a plan does not preclude the court from issuing a temporary or final custody order.

Section 63-15-220 describes a plan that reflects parental preferences, the allocation of parenting time to be spent with each parent, and major decisions, including but not limited to the child's education, medical and dental care, extracurricular activities, and religious training. The list is short and expressly open, so most parents go well beyond it with a holiday schedule, exchange arrangements, communication terms and a process for future disagreements. Child support is calculated separately under South Carolina's support rules and is not settled by a parenting plan.

It is about decisions, not about where the child sleeps. Section 63-15-210(1) defines joint custody as both parents having equal rights and responsibilities for major decisions concerning the child, including education, medical and dental care, extracurricular activities, and religious training. The same definition allows a judge to designate one parent to have sole authority over specific, identified decisions while both parents keep equal rights over all the others. Section 63-15-230(D) then provides that notwithstanding the custody determination, the court may allocate parenting time in the best interest of the child, so a joint custody label does not by itself tell you the schedule.

Section 63-15-240(B) sets out seventeen factors that apply in issuing or modifying a custody order. The list is open at both ends, because the chapeau says the best interest of the child may include but is not limited to those factors and the seventeenth is other factors as the court considers necessary. Several are unusual enough to plan around: factor (7) covers manipulation or coercive behavior used to involve the child in the parents' dispute, factor (8) covers any effort by one parent to disparage the other in front of the child, factor (12) provides that a proposed custodial parent's disability must not in and of itself be determinative, and factor (16) treats a move of more than one hundred miles from the child's primary residence in the past year as a factor unless the parent relocated for safety reasons.

The court must consider it, but the child does not choose. Section 63-15-30 requires the court to consider the child's reasonable preference for custody and to give weight to the child's preference based on the child's age, experience, maturity, judgment, and ability to express a preference. South Carolina sets no age at which a child's wishes become controlling.

South Carolina has no relocation notice statute. There is no notice period, no mileage trigger for notice, no objection window and no allocation of the burden of proof. What the code has instead runs the other way: section 63-3-530(A)(30) provides that the family court may not issue an order prohibiting a custodial parent from moving a residence to a location within the State unless the court finds a compelling reason or unless the parties have agreed to such a prohibition. That is one of the few places South Carolina gives a parental agreement express operative effect. Separately, a move of more than one hundred miles from the child's primary residence in the past year is a best interest factor under 63-15-240(B)(16), which is a factor trigger and not a notice trigger. Because the statute is silent, parents who want a firm notice rule write one into their own agreement.

It stacks three separate devices. The strongest is section 63-15-50(A), which allows visitation to a person found by a court to have committed domestic violence, or found to have been the primary aggressor where complaints were made against both parties, only if the court finds that adequate provision for the safety of the child and the victim can be made. That is a precondition on the award rather than a factor to weigh. Section 63-15-50(B) supplies conditions the court may impose, including protected-setting exchanges, supervised visitation, a batterer intervention program, abstention from alcohol for the 24 hours preceding visitation, no overnight visitation, a bond against unlawful retention, and address confidentiality, and section 63-15-50(F) makes the perpetrator pay the actual cost of treating a child injured by the violence. Section 63-15-40(A) separately requires the court to give weight to evidence of domestic violence, and it is also a listed factor at 63-15-240(B)(15). There is no rebuttable presumption against custody for a perpetrator anywhere in the chapter.

By application to the family court, not by a side agreement between the parents. The seventeen factors at section 63-15-240(B) apply in issuing or modifying a custody order, so a modification is measured against the same open-ended best interest standard as the original. A private written arrangement between parents does not alter an order the court has entered.